I really, really didn’t want to do this, but with this constant stalking, I’ve had enough. I’m fucking livid.
Let’s look at this guy. You might have seen him on my blog a number of times already as well as my previous blog. There are details in some of these collages, but I will reiterate. He’s been on my ass for months because he wants me to follow his blogs and draw him things, frequently leading to him lashing out at me and calling me names under an anonymous (albeit extremely obvious) guise when I didn’t give him enough attention. I’ve tried to be friends with him, but his behavior is extremely toxic, and he is an irresponsible, blame-displacing leech. He has been harassing both me and my friends since March at the very least.
After finishing a commission for him that he annoyed me to no ends with, on my previous blog, I blocked him. He lashed out at me, spammed my sideblogs begging for forgiveness, and event sent me emails. He eventually asked to make a deal, saying he would leave me alone for all of April, and that then I should unblock him. I reluctantly gave him a chance; during that time, I moved blogs for unrelated reasons, and he followed. Except, surprise surprise, he started sending me messages a few days before April ended. I didn’t block him right away then. Huge mistake, because then it culminated into the happenings depicted here.
In barely two months, I’ve accumulated this much evidence to his asshattery. You can see him harassing my friends. Now, if you know me at all, you should be well aware that attacking my friends is the one thing I will never forgive. But apparently he thinks he’s exempt from any and all rules, continuously putting the blame for his shitty behavior on his “self control problems” and his disability. I have a disability of my own - it’s not the same, but I know how debilitating it can be. But you know what people with disabilities do? We find ways to cope. We can work around it, even if it’s just for a limited amount of time every day. But this guy is resigned to never taking responsibility for his actions and refuses to give up on harassing me.
By the way? He has tried sending me emails for commissions too, thinking I wouldn’t recognize the name on the email. Except, y’know, it was the same email he used for his previous paypal payments. Every time I receive an email, I have to be extremely cautious.
I’ve tagged what I could of the events under the boyte saga on my blog for further exchanges that haven’t been screencapped. I’ve done this and sent all the compilations I had gathered to date to the tumblr staff to report the situation, and after a few exchanges, their response was basically “lol turn anon off”. Thanks, tumblr.
Again, I reiterate that I really didn’t want to do this. But this is for the sake of anyone else - especially other artists in the HS fandom - he might turn to to harass eventually. This constant clusterfuck is affecting me much more than I would like and if this is what it takes to get this bullshit to actually fucking stop, then so be it. My comfort matters to me more than some creeper’s pathetic need for mediocre doodles.
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Now it bears to mention that this guy has been making new accounts to pester me with every time I block him. Even after blocking 4 or 5 accounts and disabling anonymous on all of my blogs, he persists and makes new accounts every fucking time. His goal is petty and what he wants is generally harmless, but that does not excuse behavior like this. Funny how he says in one of the last images that it’s in human nature to forgive and forget - news flash, it’s also in human nature to actually fuck off when you’re told to.
I do ask that you don’t harass him - just don’t give him attention when he seeks it, because that rewards his behavior and just worsens the problem altogether. He is an adult, and thus he should learn to act like one.
I just want this bullshit to be over and done with so I can actually feel free to do what I want with my own blog without having to constantly run away.
Please reblog. This guy has pretty much been bragging that if nobody hears about him he’ll escape consequence and probably do it again to somebody else.